Life is not about finding yourself, life is about creating yourself.

We all come to this world trying to see in others what we would like to be in the future, trying to find our dreams in someone else’s dream, trying to reach to our goals the way other people reach to them. But what we don’t know is that we are damaging our relationship with the things that are surrounding us. We are discovering new things, but we are not giving them the chance to be part of us, because we haven’t seen people taking that challenge; we are aware of the mistakes people make and even though we go the same way. The problem is that we are supposed to find the way we are going to live, according to the way are family has lived. That’s why we see alcoholic families bearing alcoholic’s sons or daughter’s, Thieves than cant controlled their children stealing at the neighbor’s house. Those are just some of the problems our society is dealing with.


But… What can we do about that? How can we stop this? As I said at the beginning life is about creating yourself, we can not go all around the world copying behaviours, styles, or even the fashion we see on TV. We have to analyze carefully the way we are, the way we react when we are angry or happy or even sad. We have to know clearly which is our favorite colour, our favorite style, etc. And then… what’s next? The next thing you have to do… is not like copying someone else`s life, now you are capable of taking good values, good behaviours from other people, now you actually know what’s going to help you to grow as a person and which things can go against the way you think. So when we start doing this, we start to make our own image,


Sometimes we need a guide, a kind of person which we would like to be in the future, a person that teach us the best way to life with their lives, but just because we believe their lives are perfect it doesnt mean that their life style is gonna be perfect for me, remmember we all react in a different way to the problems, to the hard situations, so we are never gonna be just like other people, we can copy them, we can take their style but even though we are going to have something that just belongs to us.


So the important thing here is not to stand holding the things that are a copy but start making our own perfect style, the one that fit with our personality and the one thats only copy by me.


We must have in mind that we are unique, we are special, and that every single detail different from others just makes us a treasure, so when you know who you are and when you are capable of creating your own thought you can say you are creating yourself.